Some say a psycho. What say you?

From www.datingpsychos.com

Similar to the womansavers post but quite a bit of fun new information to read.  Catching any clues yet Mr. Hodapp?
 

“This man is a sociopath. He’s a Sweetheart Scam Artist. He is NOT capable of real feelings/emotions. He comes off as loving, sensitive, romantic, passionate, and more. But it’s short-termed and before you know it, you’ve paid his bills and he’s gone without warning or notice. He internalizes what he’s really thinking and by the time he shares his thoughts with you, he’s mentally and emotionally exited the relationship even though he was telling you he loved you and wanted to spend the rest of his life with you the day before. He proposes marriage within days to a few weeks of knowing you. He’s a pathological liar. He’ll promise to change, but never does. He’s worthless. He’s evil. Stay away from him. He is NOT who he says he is. He’s flat broke all the time and always spending his money instead of paying his bills. He’s a leech that will destroy you financially, mentally, and emotionally. He is a CON-ARTIST, pathological liar, and a sociopath. He’s VERY GOOD at being deceiving and getting you hooked on caring for him. DON’T care for him. Report him and run! He only cares about himself. He is so good at his skill that I gave him a second chance. If you are one of those people that believe in the good in people and see hope, don’t trust what you see in him. What you feel may be real to you but it’s not to him”
PROFILE COMMENTS:
“He also goes from woman to woman. If he’s left you, you will be replaced within a week if you hadn’t been replaced already. He’s sneaky, deceitful, untrustworthy, and more. He also is addicted to porn and pretends to be a Christian. He will go to church with you and read the Bible, but he does not have any morals. Everything he wants – wife, kids, money, objects – he wants to make himself look good and feel good about himself, when the truth is he has nothing to feel good about and doesn’t. He also owes TONS of people LOTS of money. He is scum. I don’t think he was cheating on me, but I know he cheated on other women he was dating when he was with me or he had been with me within days of dating other women” “Today he has sworn up and down he’s going to change so he “doesn’t have to deal with people like me anymore.” PEOPLE LIKE ME? Honest, caring, giving, sweet, innocent people that get absolutely walked on and destroyed by him? Oh! MY FAULT! Sorry to mess HIS life up by holding him accountable for his actions! I warn you ladies, make him do his time and keep your emotional and financial space until he can prove he can be trusted. His finances should be in order, he shouldn’t feel the need to lie about little things, he should have friends, he should be able to talk about his problems MORE THAN ONE TIME before he freaks out and blows up or shuts down, he should be on medication and have been going to therapy for months, before you even THINK about getting in a serious relationship with him or in bed with him! BE CAREFUL! He is passionate and his touch and his dramatic words and moans and sighs can really get you feeling like you are the only one for him. Do you think you are? Well TEST HIM! Make him give you your space. Don’t talk to him or see him everyday, because he WILL crowd you and not give you a second to think about any BUT being with him. TEST HIM. Go months before even suggesting or allowing him to move in with you, propose to you, ask you for money while being told “I’ll pay you back on Friday.” TEST HIM! Don’t talk to him for 2 or 3 weeks. Tell him you need some time to think or just need some space. See if he’ll respect that and leave you alone. See if he’ll be there in 3 weeks or 3 months or if he’s moved on. When I told him I wanted some time to see if he was really going to change and go to the doctor, and I didn’t want to talk to him until he went to the doctor (psych doctors), he came over the next day. Is that what I needed or was that what he needed? He does what he needs to get you in his control. Don’t get me wrong...I want him to change. The thing is, it took me a long time to let go of him because I was in love with the POTENTIAL JAMES. IF he was more responsible, IF he wasn’t so selfish, IF he didn’t waste money like that, IF he dealt with his shit, IF IF IF IF IF IF IF HE CHANGES, we would be perfect together! Make sure he is who he says he is. Make sure he can be what he says he can be before you allow him into your heart, home, and life. And if you have children, I wouldn’t even take the risk. My daughter can’t stand him. My friends could sniff him out when they met him, but I didn’t want to hear it, because I wanted and truly thought he was the one. He will study your profile online and be exactly what you are so you think you found the perfect match. I really do hope he changes but no one will know he can prove to be different over a long time period. He only lasted a couple of weeks when he was acting good for me” “My friend has a great saying. She says she is looking for a guy without a but. I asked her what do you mean.... She said, “You know...He’s handsome, he’s charming BUT....and then fill in the blank.” I laughed...So true. Sometimes I think we should put more thought into what goes after that “but” and not rationalize it or believe that he will change. Fall in love with who they ARE or realize this guy is not the right one and move on or stay alone” 

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